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Notes from the Southwest Corner-008: Blue Devil Hall of Fame Induction: There’s No Crying in Basketball

i apologize for the number added to this headline. i am trying to keep track of what i have and have not posted of my Democrat columns. This one is special to me. It was a thrilling time for me. My mother was not in the greatest of health, having battled with asthma since her sixties and not walking well when we arrived at the high school. The long walk to the gym was difficult for her. We sat on the front row, across from the Blue Devilettes’ bench.

When they made the presentations, she, having played the earliest, 1932-35, was called to center court first. Randy Sallis offered to get a chair because it would be a while as they introduced each initial Hall of Fame recipients and described their feats. Estelle Jewell refused. She stood through the entire ceremony.

Perhaps that, in a small way, showed the determination and the will she had necessary to be a class athlete and a live a wonderful life.

Lebanon High School honored the initial 13 inductees into the Athletic Hall of Fame, Friday night, during the half-time of the Blue Devilettes’ 60-49 win over Warren County High School. Andy Reed covered the event well in the Saturday edition of The Democrat.

My comments are a bit more personal. You probably know my mother, Estelle Prichard Jewell, the lady in the front-page picture of Saturday’s edition, was part of the program.

My heroes of my pre-teen years, Don Franklin and Clifton Tribble were there. Most gratifyingly, I talked to Gill Robinson, who accepted the award for his late father, David Robinson, who played along side Franklin, Tribble, and Robert Dedman, also an inductee. David was not only a hero; he also was my coach at Castle Heights and reset my shoulder in place when I separated it during a practice.

My friends, Louis Thompson, and his wife, Peggy McDonald were there for Louis’ induction. I had not seen these two special people for more than 45 years.

Rita Rochelle, although she played after I had left for college, sports writing for the defunct Nashville Banner, and the Navy, started her fabulous career as a freshman when my sister, Martha Duff, was playing her senior season.

If anyone’s athletic performance at Lebanon High School accurately could be called heroic– I often guffaw when a television commentator describes a golfer’s shot as heroic – it would have to be Loharrel Stevenson. Stevenson was not only a superb high school and college athlete but also broke the color barrier for the Blue Devils while I watched Perry Wallace doing the same for Vanderbilt and the SEC, both giant steps toward impartiality.

My sister and I sat in the third row behind the inductees during the first half of the Devilette’s game. It had not changed a great deal since she played and practiced there and I played many weekend pickup games. Nostalgia was running rampant in our veins. We exchanged sports stories and recalled our mother’s retelling of some fun moments in her career and our recollection’s of our friends and heroes.

When the first half was over, the board walked to the foul line on the west end of the court. Randy Sallis, a board member, walked over and escorted my mother to receive her plaque and stand at center court while the rest of the inductees received their plaques and joined her.

Amidst all of the current hype and overdose of athletic awards (ESPY’s?) and the excess commercialism of made-for-television (or at least scheduled for television) sports events, the halftime ceremony received little media coverage outside of Lebanon.

But as my sister and I watched the presentations unfurl and watched our 90-year old mother beaming that fabulous smile of hers, we sensed each other had tears welling up, ready to burst. Martha, a pesky and consistent defending guard several years ago, corrected the problem with a modified quote from “A League of Their Own.”

She quietly told me, “There ain’t no crying in basketball.”

As we left for more formal photos of the inductees in the library, I stopped and talked to old friends, Jim Harding and Bobby Byrd, a good “coming home” experience by itself. Before walking down the exit corridor, I turned to look at the gymnasium scene one more time. It will no longer be the high school gym if I ever get back.

The moment captured a wonderful tradition and transition of Blue Devil sports for me. There remains something healthy and right about high school athletics.

Thanks again to Clint Wilson, Denise Joyner, the Board of Directors, and the Booster’s Club for perpetuating the good things.

i don’ wanna

i don’ wanna.

i was thinking yesterday about how many times i’ve said or thought that over the span of 79 years, and what the repercussions would have been had i had my way.

Jim, stop sucking your thumb.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, eat your food.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, don’t poop in your underpants.
i don’ wanna (to not poop in my underpants).

Jim, quit wiggling and making all that noise (in church)
i don’ wanna.

Jim, be good and quiet, and listen.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, clean up your room.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, wash the dishes.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, stay away from that boy; he just wants to fight.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, be sure and be home for supper.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, do your homework.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, turn off the radio.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, turn off the television.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, go to bed.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, go to sleep.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, play in the yard, not in the street.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, eat some fruit; candies aren’t good for you,
i don’ wanna.

Jim, be sure you get home before supper.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, practice your piano.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, come straight home from school.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, wake up; you are going to be late.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, wash and wax the floors.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, clean the windows.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, mow the yard.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, do your homework.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, after baseball practice (or football, or basketball), come straight home, don’t play basketball in the gym with Mike Dixon.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, you can pick up the other boys for the meeting but take them straight home and don’t go anywhere else.
i don’ wanna.

Jim, quit speeding.
i don’ wanna.

There are numerous other instances where that phrase came into my mind through my years. They go past my mother and father, includes my wives, friends with good intentions, counselors, senior Navy officers, and many others. To my declaration of not wanting to do something, i weighed the ramifications of actually not doing something or going ahead and resisting my inclination to resist. This practice of assessment has been part of my decision process for all of my life that i remember.

Sometimes my choice to do something i didn’t want to do turned out great. Other times it was a disaster.

Sometimes not doing something i didn’t want to do turned out great. Other times it was a disaster.

So, after 79 years and more, what have i learned? I have learned sometimes things work out. Sometimes they don’t. What i have learned is to live with it, either way. After all if they don’t, what is going to happen? It really doesn’t matter if i am trying to live a good life, be a good person. Regardless, living is going to happen until i die…but i don’ wanna.

Mea Culpa, Maureen

This is a short post. i just want to be sure all who read my stuff here knows when i throw my little darts at Maureen, they are in jest, tongue-in-cheek, especially when it comes to our home.

This house, outside and inside, is the way it is through Maureen’s efforts. It is both beautiful and comfortable. Her vision of how it is and how it should be in the future is what makes it both beautiful and comfortable. She has allowed me to keep things that are dear, and many of the things i brought into this union are in prominent places throughout our home. She listens to me before rejecting my ideas because my ideas don’t fit her vision, and my vision belongs in a bachelor’s cabin in the mountains or beside a lake…or in a stateroom on a Navy steam ship.

And every day, actually two or three times a day, i look around and find myself amazed that i’m living in such a wonderful place.

So please don’t take my knocks on all my stuff being in the garage. A lot of it is out there, but i like it there.

Mea culpa, Maureen, and thanks.